What is a Troubled Teen?
There are many terms used for a troubled teen. Terms like at-risk youth, juvenile delinquent, out of control youth or struggling teen. Whatever term is used to describe a way-ward family member, it is difficult to perceive the heart-ache that a family may experience in dealing with a troubled teen.
Teenagers that display negative behaviors like defiance, drug/alcohol use, truancy, and dropping out of school, pregnancy, violence, depression, or attempts to suicide are clear indicators to a parent that his or her teen is in trouble. The difficulty that parents and family members face as they deal with the negative behaviors by their struggling teen is how to help their family member.
The first step toward change is awareness!
Family members of a troubled teen may see negative changes in their teens, and not even know it. A troubled teen’s negative changes are often subtle and hard to detect. A troubled teen’s path to self-destruction, most times, start with subtle changes like a drop in grades, deliberately trying not to fit in with peers and spending too much time alone or sleeping. These are only a few examples of the subtle changes in a troubled teen. It is natural for parents or a loved one of a troubled teen to feel a collection of emotions or display an array of behaviors such as:

- Grief
- Guilt
- Denial
- Avoidance
- Depression
- Anger
- Isolation
- Bargaining techniques
- Minimizing or Maximizing
- Ultimatums
- Enabling
- Blame Shifting
- Loss of Hope
As parents, family members or guardians discover and encounter their child’s negative behavior. The challenge becomes how to help their out of control teen.